Men…
In as much as I advised you to be disciplined and train yourself not to be moved by a woman’s nakedness, but that shouldn’t mean that you should allow any woman to manipulate you into waiting until marriage before they could allow you to taste their honeypot.
Sex is not worth waiting for. There is nothing special about her that you should start waiting for that long. Her vagina is not made of gold, it is just like other women’s vaginas
There is nothing wrong for the two adults who claimed to love themselves to engage in sexual intimacy, it further stretches the bond and make the relationship stronger.
It has also been proven that women become more committed and affectionate after engaging in sexual intercourse with their men.
Men and women have different perspectives on sex. To men, sex doesn’t go beyond having fun or cruise with the opposite sex. A man can fivk a random vvoman with no emotional attachment but to women, sex is an investment.
Yes, having sex with you means investing their emotions which will further strengthen their commitment . And you know what?
Women values their investments, especially their emotional investments. That is why they rarely forget the man who took them to their sexual pinnacle.
That is why they will always remember that guy that deflowered them, that is why they will never forget that man that ruffle handled them on bed. Even the one that r.a.pe.d them, they never forget because there is emotional involvement. .
To the woman, relationship started when sex is involved, that is why some will ask you;
“What are we now?”
After having sex with them. I am talking about decent women not sex workers or B2B midfielders who commercialized sex.
It becomes easier for a woman to dump you when you haven’t seen her nakedness no matter the level of your sacrifice. But some vvomen can stick with you simple because you have seen their nakedness and you are good on bed.
Can you see that vvomen value sex more than men?
If a woman who in already in the relationship with you insists that you are not going to see her panties until after marriage, then she wants to play game with you.
It is understandable if she is a virgin who wants to present her virginity to her husband as a gift which is commendable but even at that, I will advise you to quit the relationship if you are not ready for marriage at the moment unless she submit herself to be deflowered.
But if a woman has been tasting many dicks and declined to allow you access when it got to your turn, then something is wrong somewhere.
Three things are involved;
- She may be hiding something that will scare you away from her. Some of them with many body counts and multiple penile mileage carried dirt, smelling boreholes under there.
Some of them have a very bad body odour. Immediately they remove their panties, the whole room will be polluted. It will be like a Rat died in the room, you will be gasping for breathes while been suffocated by the stench.
I have came across many of them and lost interest immediately they removed their panties.
Forget about their outward appearances, their fine faces, smooth skins and nice dressings, some of them have rotten smelling things under there and they know it and are ashamed of it.
- They may sense your desperation in trying to have sex with them and will assume that you just want to fuck them.
This is where your self discipline comes in.
Sex is important but don’t be desperate to have it. Relationship is more than having sex especially if you are seeing future in her. I told you in one of my articles not to start relationship without having a “purpose” which you both want to Pursue and achieve together. Sex shouldn’t be your priority in a committed relationship, the purpose of starting the relationship in the first place , comes first. Your zeal in pursuing the purpose will give assurance to your partner and make her comfortable, then she won’t hesitate any time you brings the sex talk.
- She may not be into you. Both men and women have standards and boundaries.
The different is that, men are strict and rigid in maintaining their standards and boundaries while women are flexible in maintaining theirs.
Women are weak-willed, they bend their rules to favour the men they love. If she insisted that you will never see her pant until marriage, then she is not really into you. Don’t be surprised that another man else is piping her. It has happened in many occasions.
One of the reasons of starting the relationship at first is to check your level of compatibility which sexual compatibility is included .
What if you waited untill marriage only to discover that you guys are not sexually compatible?
This can lead to cheating and separation.
What if after waiting untill marriage only to discovered that she carried rotten smelling things under there, this can lead to the lost of interests and kills the affections.
If she is not a virgin and she insisted that you can’t see her panties untill after marriage, quit the relationship . Something is definitely wrong somewhere, don’t be deceived.
She is not a decent girl
She is just hiding something from you.
Be wise